Children with IBD (Parents Guide) Part 5 -

If you have a child with Inflammatory Bowel Disease, it is natural at times to feel isolated and worried about how you will cope, especially when your child is first diagnosed. This series of articles have been taken from the Crohn's and Colitis UK booklet IBD in Children: A Parent's Guide and has been produced to help you understand your child’s condition and the treatments that may be used. It also looks at some of the more general concerns that you may have as a parent, and includes suggestions based on the experiences of other parents of children with Ulcerative Colitis or Crohn’s Disease. It has been written mainly for parents of children under 16, but we hope it may also be of some interest to parents of older children.

What is the best way to approach schools and teachers?

Most children with IBD attend ordinary schools, colleges and universities. School is a central part of your child’s life and they should be able to take part in most activities just like any other child.

“I always tried to get her to go to school despite tummy aches. I was pushing
to make life as normal as possible. After all, it’s a condition she has to live
with. If I treated her like an invalid she would all too readily fulfil that role.”
(Mum of a 9 year old with UC)

Although some children may have to miss school during relapses, chances are that most of the time they will be well enough to attend as normal. For a few children there may be a temptation for them to use their illness as an excuse to stay off school unnecessarily. The best policy is probably to expect your child to attend school unless he or she is definitely unwell. If you are worried that your child is falling behind because of time off school, talk to the class teacher about the possibility of home tuition or extra help in class.

Children vary in terms of how much they want other children at school to know about their IBD. Some may appreciate a teacher explaining their condition to the class, others would find this highly distressing. It is usually a good idea to discuss this with your child before you talk to their teachers.

In general, schools are better informed now about IBD than in the past, and most teachers and other school staff are accepting and helpful once they know what is involved in your child’s condition. We have an information sheet, Children and Young People with IBD: A guide for schools, which you may find useful when talking to your child’s school. This explains IBD symptoms and likely treatments, and includes suggestions of ways in which the school can help your child, for instance by allowing them leave the classroom to go to the toilet without asking, or to sit near the door in case of a toilet emergency. It also covers schools’ legal responsibilities towards children with disabilities and medical needs, which may apply to a child with severe IBD. You may wish to give your child’s teachers a copy of the information sheet.

“We took the information about IBD into school and asked for it to be shown

to everyone, from teachers to dinner ladies. Now the school fully understands

what he has to cope with, they are very helpful, and do their utmost to make

his school life happy.”

(Mum of a 7 year old with UC )

How can I help my child cope with stress at school?

Some parents may worry about their child being teased or picked on at school, perhaps about toilet ‘accidents’ or delayed physical development. Some children find it difficult to talk about this, even to parents. Signs that your child may be being bullied can include nervousness, temper tantrums, violence or sudden misbehaviour like playing truant. Talk to your child’s teacher if you are worried and make sure your child knows what to do.

Some children may find that stress can make their IBD worse, this could mean that the stress of exams could trigger a relapse of symptoms. You may need to offer extra support at this time, and ensure that they do not overdo their exam preparation. Children need to find a balance between doing sufficient study to perform well, and staying well. Make sure your child has time to rest and have fun, as well as working. It can be a good idea to check that the school is aware that exams can be a particular problem for children with a fluctuating and unpredictable illness like IBD.

Schools and colleges can often postpone internal exams or dates for handing in assignments, if necessary, and special arrangements can sometimes be made for GCSEs and A-levels. Children with IBD may be covered by the Equality Act 2010, under which the school has a responsibility to make reasonable adjustments to prevent them being placed at a disadvantage.

Coming up in Part 6 - More Information and Support

Children with IBD (Parent's Guide) Part 1 - What is IBD?

In the UK, one person in 250 has Crohn’s Disease or Ulcerative Colitis, conditions collectively known as Inflammatory Bowel Disease or IBD. These illnesses can start in childhood and around a quarter of all people diagnosed with IBD are children or adolescents.

If you have a child with Inflammatory Bowel Disease, it is natural at times to feel isolated and worried about how you will cope, especially when your child is first diagnosed. It may help to bear in mind that:

• while your situation is unique, you are not alone - there are thousands of other parents in a similar situation with similar experiences and concerns;
• nowadays there is a good chance that these conditions can be kept under control. The aim of medical treatment is to reduce and limit the number of times your child’s bowel is inflamed, so that he or she can get on with everyday life with as little disruption as possible.

This series of articles is taken from the Crohn's and Colitis UK booklet IBD in Children: A Parent's Guide and has been produced to help you understand your child’s condition and the treatments that may be used. It also looks at some of the more general concerns that you may have as a parent, and includes suggestions based on the experiences of other parents of children with Ulcerative Colitis or Crohn’s Disease. It has been written mainly for parents of children under 16, but we hope it may also be of some interest to parents of older children.

What is Inflammatory Bowel Disease?

Inflammatory Bowel Disease is the name given to a group of conditions, of which Crohn’s Disease and Ulcerative Colitis (UC) are the best known. It is not always possible to distinguish between the two, so some people may be given a diagnosis of indeterminate colitis or IBD unclassified (IBDU).

You cannot ‘catch’ IBD – it is not infectious or contagious. IBD is not the same as IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome). IBS has some similar symptoms to IBD, but is a different condition and is treated differently. To understand IBD it can help to know how the digestive system works. As shown in this diagram, the gastrointestinal (digestive) tract is like a long tube that starts at the mouth and ends at the anus.

When we swallow food it goes down the oesophagus into the stomach. Here the gastric (stomach) juices break the food down to a porridge-like consistency. This partially digested food moves through into the small intestine where most of the goodness is absorbed. What’s left then passes into the colon (large intestine). The colon absorbs the water and the waste becomes faeces (stools or ‘poo’). These collect in the rectum and pass out of the body through the anus.

Crohn’s Disease and Ulcerative Colitis can both cause inflammation of the digestive system. Inflammation is the body’s reaction to injury or irritation and can cause redness, swelling and pain.

In Crohn’s Disease, this inflammation can be anywhere from mouth to anus – it is most common in the small intestine or colon. The areas of inflammation are often patchy, with sections of normal gut in between. Both the lining and the deeper layers of the bowel wall may be affected.

Ulcerative Colitis involves the colon (large intestine) and rectum. In this disease the inner lining of the colon becomes inflamed and develops many tiny ulcers on its surface.

What are the main symptoms?

Crohn’s Disease and Ulcerative Colitis are chronic, or ongoing, conditions. This means that they are lifelong diseases which may give trouble over a number of years. However, your child may have long periods of good health (remission) alternating with times when the symptoms are more active (relapses or ‘flare-ups’).

The early symptoms of Crohn’s Disease are often very vague and can vary from person to person, so the diagnosis may not be clear at first. With children, symptoms often include stomach or tummy ache, and diarrhoea, which may be blood stained. Crohn’s can also cause nausea, vomiting and lack of energy. Many children with Crohn’s have weight loss and may grow more slowly than other children. Ulcerative Colitis can also cause abdominal pain, and as with Crohn’s, your child may feel tired and lethargic. The main symptom, however, tends to be persistent diarrhoea, which can often be quite severe, and usually contains blood and mucus. Occasionally UC may cause constipation.

What causes IBD?

In spite of much research, the exact cause of IBD remains uncertain. We do know that IBD is not infectious and is not a form of cancer. There is no conclusive evidence that stress can cause IBD, although some people with IBD have found that stressful situations seem to trigger a flare-up of their symptoms.

Many researchers now believe that IBD is caused by a combination of factors: the genes a person has inherited which may predispose them to develop IBD, and then an abnormal reaction of the immune system (the body’s protection system) to certain bacteria in the intestines, possibly triggered by something in the environment. Viruses, bacteria, diet and stress have all been suggested as environmental triggers, but there is no definite evidence that any one of these factors is responsible.

Research is continuing, especially into genetic (inherited) factors. Both UC and Crohn’s are known to occur more often in some families than in others, and in recent years progress has been made in identifying the genes that may be involved in making people more likely to develop IBD. Parents with IBD are slightly more likely to have a child with IBD. For every 100 people with UC, about 2 of their children might be expected to develop IBD at some time in their lives. For every 100 people with Crohn’s, about 5 of their children might be expected to develop IBD.

There is also a similar risk that if one child in a family has IBD, a sibling (brother or sister) may also develop UC or Crohn’s Disease. However, we still cannot predict exactly how IBD is passed on from one generation to another. Nothing you have done or not done will have caused your child to have IBD.

Can other parts of the body be affected?

Some children with IBD develop associated conditions in other parts of the body. The most common one is arthritis (inflammation of the joints). This type of arthritis usually responds well to most of the anti-inflammatory drugs given to treat IBD, and so the arthritis often improves as the IBD improves.

Some children may develop mouth ulcers and thickening of the lips, particularly if they have Crohn’s Disease. Directly applied creams or gels, available from your doctor, can usually help heal up the ulcers if they do not improve with the IBD treatment. Mouthwashes may also be helpful. Skin rashes are quite common, and sometimes come on at the start of a flare-up. One type of rash, erythema nodosum can cause small painful red patches down the shins. This too should disappear with the treatment of the IBD.

IBD can occasionally affect the liver. Your doctor will be screening for liver problems such as ongoing inflammation through routine blood tests.

In a small number of children, the eyes may become inflamed. You should speak to an eye specialist or your child’s doctor if your child has sore, red orinflamed eyes, as occasionally more serious eye problems can occur.

Will my child get better?

Currently, IBD cannot be cured, in other words taken away completely, but a lot can be done to minimise its effects and help your child live a normal life. Once treatment is started many of your child’s symptoms should improve within a few weeks. Although there may then be periods of relapse when your child could be ill with IBD, there will probably be periods of remission when their symptoms more or less disappear. Most children with IBD can continue to go to school and take part in sports and other interests. Many then go on to university or employment, and eventually start a family of their own.

Coming up in Part 2 - Tests and Treatments